20th January 2021

We investigate how to set customer expectations during a call, sharing lots of best practices for call centre advisors.
There is a trap that many contact centre advisors fall into – which is to tell the customer what they want to hear, rather than what is likely to happen.
This may get the caller off the phone, but will likely result in repeat phone calls. The situation is made worse if you target agents on Average Handling Time (AHT).
Under-commit and over-deliver.
Remember, it is more important to “under-commit and over-deliver” than it is to “over-commit and under-deliver”.
By setting the correct expectations, you can take control of the call and improve First Contact Resolution (FCR).
Using a technique called “signposting” is a subtle way to indicate to the customer that you are knowledgeable in a subject area and that you know best. This then helps to set the roles for the conversation in the customer’s mind; you’re the expert, they’re the customer.
The advisor is – in a friendly tone – directing them and taking control of the situation.
This technique works best when a customer calls regarding a common issue and, in response to the customer outlining their problem, the advisor steers them about what they are going to need to resolve the issue.
So, the advisor is – in a friendly tone – directing them and taking control of the situation.
Examples of phrases that advisors can use when signposting include:
Each of these phrases is great, because it allows the advisor to demonstrate their expertise in responding to the matter at hand. The caller’s expectations of you are therefore enhanced, so they will likely be more willing to accept the devised call outcome.
To find out more about how to use signposting in the contact centre, read our article: Signposting – Reduce Your Average Handling Time (AHT) by 15 Seconds
Even when you signpost the call to highlight your authority, you will come across customers who have unrealistic expectations and demand more than you can deliver.
These situations can be tricky for an advisor to navigate, and when dealing with these customers, the advisor may find themselves in tricky “standoff” situations.
In such scenarios, the first step is to show that you understand what the customer wants and why they want it. This acknowledgement is the first step in building rapport with a demanding customer.

The first step is to show that you understand what the customer wants and why they want it…
Then, it’s time for some honest talk and to tell the customer what you cannot do for them, before quickly following up with what you can do for the customer, using positive words to frame your preferred option in the best way possible.
The use of positive words like “super”, “great” and “fantastic” are really useful in terms of adding energy to a conversation and building momentum behind your ideas.
For example, the advisor can say: “I can’t do that for you, although a great option which I can provide to you is…”
With this option, you are presenting the customer with a positive option that they have control over – so they start to believe that their request has been listened to.
If the customer still refuses to accept your proposed solution, it might then be best to highlight to the customer where else they might be able to find what they are looking for – showing them that you have been acting in their best interest all along.
For more advice on handling various types of difficult customers, read our article: How to Handle Contacts From Challenging Customers
Although it can be difficult when a customer has unrealistic expectations and doesn’t accept an advisor’s counter-proposal, there may come a time when the advisor has to spell out why they cannot deliver on the customer’s expectations.
Understandably, advisors can feel uneasy in doing that – as they become defensive about the company that they work for. Yet this is a much better option that falling back on horrible canned phrases, like those below, which only serve to rile the customer further.
“It’s customer policy” – There is no bigger signal that the advisor can send to the customer that they just want to hang up the phone, and the customer will think it’s very unlikely that a customer policy will go against their basic expectations.
“I don’t know/I’m not sure” – This one can be hard to avoid, but it reflects badly on the company, as it seems as though the advisor is not knowledgeable and has had insufficient training. “Let me find out for you,” is a much better response.
“There is nothing I can do for you” – Arguably, this is the worst phrase an advisor can use. It can be avoided by finding other options and creative solutions to ensure that you are being proactive in assisting the customer with their demands.
For more key phrases to avoid when speaking to customers, read our article: 15 Things a Call Centre Agent Should Never Say (But Many Do)
Once you have navigated the customer’s query, it’s important to say what happens next and to give the customer a timescale.
By doing this, the advisor gives the customer peace of mind that the matter is under control, while the timescale allows the customer to plan their lives.
So, once the call comes to an end, it’s good to follow these four steps:
By following this process, you alleviate any additional customer concerns, including:
While we have discussed how to deal with demanding customers and the value of signposting to demonstrate authority, there are many more ways in which you can set the right expectations in the call centre.
So, let’s finish with five quick tips for how else you can do just that:
For more on managing customer expectations in the contact centre, read our articles:
Reviewed by: Robyn Coppell